Mediums cant do it, you have to do it. Somehow you are holding on, time to let go in all ways, he wont leave until you do.

It seems like you have moved on. When he says he wants to make up for everything, what do you think he meant? You say you weren't close to him right? Maybe he feels regret for that. From what I know, a spirit cant move on when they have unfinished business. Find out what he cant move on from and put him at ease. He maybe holding on because you are pulling away from what he is trying to accomplish. Not saying that he is doing it the right way obviously.
He may have regrets about how your guy's relationship was. He may be wanting you to forgive him for not being there for you. I don't know the situation, but I think the key is to figure out what he cant let go of. Hope this helps

I believe rach411 is right. It is not up to anyone else to release him. You have to do that. Is there anything in the house that was his. It there is you need to get rid of it. Bound it with salt and dig a hole , put it in there and cover it up. then forget it. If you don't want him around then your have to get rid of everything that was his also. Anything that he had when he was alive may have his energy attached to it. If you want to move on you have to move on completely. this may help release some of the energy to the point it weakens him and you can demand that he leave.

My husband was ill for a number of years before he passed..we were not intimate very often...but now he is always putting sexual energy on me..which i do not like..plus at night i feel his energy lying at my back...this makes me scared..i have to go and sleep at my boyfriends flat..my flat is not my own anymore...i have spoke to my husband about him moving on, and that i forgive him.but does not seem to listen to me or any mediums..this keeps me awake at night..i mainly only have pictures of him left..but it does not matter where i live or stay. the same thing goes on..i am at my wits end over this..thank you for all your repies..any help i would be gratful for..

You say you have some pictures. Are they out in the open or put away. You still have something around that you both shared that he was fond of. What is it? you need closier. Closier from him. I know you say you were not close. But something is holding him. Think real hard if there is anything that is there and think about what he has done in the past that you may need to forgive him for. Saying it and meaning it are two different things. It may even be something that he didn't do that he wanted to but never had the chance to. Was there anything he wanted to do? When you forgive him You have to mean it with every part of your body, heart and soel. Tell him it is time to move on. That you are moving on with out him. and is time for him to go. You can do this over and over again, but until everything that bounds him to you is closed he is not going anywhere. you have to close it all. Pictures, items, clothing, any little thing can do it.

good luck

those who can help you usually stick to the rules of magick, one of which is "we do not accept monetary compensation for our work." The rule of three will bring back the good to us that we need. The ones who are asking for money, especially if they are asking far more than you can afford for help in a matter such as this, are charlatans. Do not subscribe to their bull.