"That's great! That family understanding can be very positive for all involved. Me, on the other hand... my sister died in 2000 and we didn't have the best of relationships. Her dying wish was for her eldest son to come live with us and not stay with his step father...he did come here and is doing well. My sister comes to me in my dreams when she has something she wants to tell me or when she's worried about her son, which she shows me in emotion rather then words. For instance if something bad happens she will be crying in the dream or if something good happens concerning her son she comes to me happy. When I have those dreams I contact my nephew to check on him. Now, he'll tell me he's ok but I'll say "I know about the car wreck" and he'll say "how did you know, I didn't tell anybody?" I tell him his Mom told me. He believes me, how can he not? He still keeps important things from me but I check on him and he is honest with me." sleepy1md
