Wow, definitely insensitive!

I think it really varies from spirit to spirit, the amount of closure and their personality.

Kimmy, I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. You do not need to qualify your question at all. This was a very good topic for general discussion.

you people said I was callus , thoughtless and mean. If that upset you , all of you take life to serious, to much drama you need to lighten up and if he does come back you think he wants to see his love ones sittng on the bed with there head hung down, then he would never be able to rest in peace, Ill be gone in a few days I want my family to be happy .You have to rememember the ones that are still with you. When he does come back it will be when you are alone and relaxed, thanks Tway

Under the circumstances, the fact that Kimmy has recently lost her spouse, what you said was not appropriate. If this was a general question, I personally wouldn't care. Please understand. Thank you.